Several years ago a movie came out staring Julia Roberts. It was called, “Sleeping with the Enemy.” Julia Roberts played the character of a battered wife who took great measures to escape her home and her marriage. She made a new life for herself with a new identity, but after several twists and turns the plot thickens when her husband finds her and proceeds to cause all sorts of problems for her.

After seeing this movie the title did not even phase me. Of course he was the enemy. He was wicked, controlling and abusive.

Sadly, many of us can think of an enemy in our life. I know that word sounds harsh, but we have all dealt with people who have been in authority over us and hurt, or even damaged us. They are managers in our workplace, they are leaders in our government, our churches, our social groups—they are all around us. And they aren’t going anywhere. So, what should be our response to the enemies in our lives?

I have watched my husband deal with them in his place of work. Thankfully he has developed thick skin, but I have not. It hurts me to the core when my husband’s character is attacked and his reputation is slandered. So, how do I find peace in the midst of these situations? Scripture.

“The king’s heart is in the hands of the Lord, he directs it like a watercourse wherever he pleases.” Proverbs 21:1

The writer here is referring to “kings” as those who have authority over us. This could mean a manager in the workplace, a parent, a teacher, a government leader. Now think of that person in your life and place his or her name as “the king.” Wow, do you see what I see here? God is in control, even over those enemies.

I am reminded of another truth. Paul writes:

“…that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.” Philippians 2:9-11

Every one of those enemies in your life that have hurt you, ridiculed you, angered you, will face a judgment before the Lord himself someday. Humbly they will bow and confess the authority of Christ over their lives.

It’s a sobering truth, even for a believer. Sadly though, that enemy may face a horrific eternity. Again I ask, what should be our response to the “enemies” in our life? Perhaps there is no clear cut answer for your situation, but when you are face to face with your enemy, think about these scriptures. You may see him or her in a whole new light.

• Proverbs 24:17
• Proverbs 25:21

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